Friday Postcards from Lake Wentworth NH
There is nothing, and I mean nothing, like a lazy week on a lake. I’ve barely done any work in the past few days, except a few Facebook updates and checking email. I didn’t quite unplug, but I did the best I could given my personality and a few projects that didn’t get wrapped up as quickly as I had hoped before I left.
My life has slowed down while we vacation on Lake Wentworth (near Wolfeboro) in New Hampshire this week. I gave myself permission to sit. OK, well maybe that’s delusional given that I have a two and four year old, but I did sit in a raft, in a kayak and on a beach chair for a few minutes this week.
Putting our daily routine on hold and only having one basic thing to do each day- enjoy the lake- brought us back down to our core elements as a family. We love to play, explore, hike, throw rocks, skip stones, splash each other in the face, dive under water to see the fish, and roast marshmallows by an open fire. These all sound simple enough, but when you are a family that is constantly on the go, whether to our next destination, soccer practice, school or dental appointments, just being able to play is a real luxury.
I’ve watched more sunsets than I can count this week. I’ve gotten to do a little night photography. I read a book. Almost two books in fact! I went to bed early; hubby and I switched off sleeping in late.
My parents and my sister’s family have been with us up at the lake all week, which added extra eyes, ears and hands to look out for the boys. Having extra help allowed us to relax in a way we can’t often do back home, where we have no family, only friends who can lend a hand every now and then when they aren’t busy with their own kids. I’m grateful for their help, and any help I can offer them, but there really is nothing like family when you are on vacation. In my family at least, it is expected that everyone looks out for the kids, and sometimes mom and dad need to sneak off for a breather back at the cabin, while the kids stay with grandpa and grandma by the lake.
When I watched my husband throwing our youngest into the air after dinner tonight I had to smile. Sure we have lakes back home, but the water isn’t as warm and we don’t prioritize time to play in it. This week has been special. We set aside all responsibilities and focused on the most important thing of all– playing as a family. Maybe we need to think about doing that a little more.
How do you set aside time just to play?
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